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Our readers, however, insist that that might be a label easily assigned to a partner who is simply being financially responsible. When we put out a call to out readers last week to see if any of them had similar experiences, we found that many of you wouldn\u2019t define the actions described as financial bullying. Instead, quite a number of you insisted that keeping track of your partner\u2019s expenses was simply budgeting and being financially responsible.  Continue reading&#8230;&#013;<br \/>\n&#013;<br \/>\nSource : theguardian.com&#013;<br \/>\nRead more&#8230;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/money\/us-money-blog\/2014\/aug\/14\/relationships-finances-bullying-abuse-dependent-equality\" target=\"_blank\">Financial bullying can ruin a marriage: first-person stories<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#013; When partners consider finances, when is it \u2018my\u2019 money, and when it is \u2018our\u2019 money?&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"false","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-84646","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-property-news"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p75ss1-m1g","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":4113,"url":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/i-want-to-leave-my-job-after-a-month-due-to-my-bullying-boss-but-worry-how-it-would-look\/","url_meta":{"origin":84646,"position":0},"title":"I want to leave my job after a month due to my bullying boss \u2013 but worry how it would look","date":"October 19, 2015","format":false,"excerpt":"\r Nine people have left my office in the past year, and the terms and conditions are poor, but I am 54 and have been out of work for some time Twice a week we publish problems that will feature in a forthcoming Dear Jeremy advice column in the Saturday\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Property News&quot;","img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":147310,"url":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/it-is-a-lot-cheaper-for-couples-single-people-feel-penalised-on-prices\/","url_meta":{"origin":84646,"position":1},"title":"\u2018It is a lot cheaper for couples\u2019: single people feel penalised on prices","date":"October 5, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"\r Frustration over lack of discounts for those with extra financial burden because they face living costs aloneThe solo penalty: \u2018Being single is costing me \u00a312,000 extra a year\u2019A few days ago, the Guardian published a reader callout asking how much it costs to be single in the UK. 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