{"id":72695,"date":"2013-05-10T16:02:21","date_gmt":"2013-05-10T09:02:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/how-can-i-deal-with-a-nightmarish-colleague\/"},"modified":"2017-11-23T23:03:16","modified_gmt":"2017-11-23T16:03:16","slug":"how-can-i-deal-with-a-nightmarish-colleague","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/how-can-i-deal-with-a-nightmarish-colleague\/","title":{"rendered":"How can I deal with a nightmarish colleague?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#013;<br \/>\nShe&#8217;s an aggressive, depressive bully next to whom I have to sit, but I don&#8217;t want to be sucked into her abyss of miseryEach Friday and Monday we publish the problems that will feature in a forthcoming Dear Jeremy advice column in the Guardian Money supplement so that readers can offer their own advice and suggestions. We then print the best of your comments alongside Jeremy&#8217;s own insights. Here is the latest dilemma \u2013 what are your thoughts?I work in a school office. The principal&#8217;s PA is an absolute nightmare to work with: she moans about everyone, is negative, unkind, self-centred and unhelpful \u2013 an office bully who when stood up to, backs down. She goes into deep depressions where she becomes neurotic and aggressive. She is supposed to take anti-depressants; twice she has come off them (she tells me) and becomes even worse. Continue reading&#8230;&#013;<br \/>\n&#013;<br \/>\nSource : theguardian.com&#013;<br \/>\nRead more&#8230;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/money\/work-blog\/2013\/may\/10\/how-deal-with-nightmarish-colleague\" target=\"_blank\">How can I deal with a nightmarish colleague?<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#013; She&#8217;s an aggressive, depressive bully next to whom I have to sit, but I don&#8217;t&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"false","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-72695","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-property-news"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p75ss1-iUv","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":98439,"url":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/china-calls-us-an-economic-bully-as-trump-imposes-200bn-of-trade-tariffs\/","url_meta":{"origin":72695,"position":0},"title":"China calls US an &#039;economic bully&#039; as Trump imposes $200bn of trade tariffs","date":"September 24, 2018","format":false,"excerpt":"\r \r \r Source : telegraph.co.uk\r Read more...China calls US an 'economic bully' as Trump imposes 0bn of trade tariffs","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Property News&quot;","img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":86796,"url":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/bully-for-you-intimidation-at-work\/","url_meta":{"origin":72695,"position":1},"title":"Bully for you: Intimidation at work","date":"February 27, 2010","format":false,"excerpt":"\r Personal intimidation in the workplace can be hard to define and doesn't always come from above. 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