{"id":6424,"date":"2015-11-02T14:00:07","date_gmt":"2015-11-02T07:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/my-colleague-is-rude-and-aggressive-to-everyone-at-work\/"},"modified":"2016-03-01T11:19:13","modified_gmt":"2016-03-01T04:19:13","slug":"my-colleague-is-rude-and-aggressive-to-everyone-at-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/my-colleague-is-rude-and-aggressive-to-everyone-at-work\/","title":{"rendered":"My colleague is rude and aggressive to everyone at work"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#013;<br \/>\nThe partners at my firm are reluctant to act even though her bullying behaviour has driven several good people out Twice a week we publish problems that will feature in a forthcoming Dear Jeremy advice column in the Saturday Guardian so that readers can offer their own advice and suggestions. We then print the best of your comments alongside Jeremy\u2019s own insights. Here is the latest dilemma \u2013 what are your thoughts?I am a senior manager in a large professional firm. The work is interesting and rewarding, and the majority of my colleagues are very pleasant. Unfortunately, over the last couple of years, a senior colleague \u2013 who is my peer \u2013 has become increasingly aggressive, domineering and bullying. She is rude to her team, her colleagues (including me) and on occasion, the partners. Several good people have left, privately citing her behaviour as the reason. Others have gone on \u201cstress leave\u201d. Continue reading&#8230;&#013;<br \/>\n&#013;<br \/>\nSource : theguardian.com&#013;<br \/>\nRead more&#8230;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/money\/2015\/nov\/02\/colleague-rude-aggressive-to-everyone-at-work\" target=\"_blank\">My colleague is rude and aggressive to everyone at work<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#013; The partners at my firm are reluctant to act even though her bullying behaviour has&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"false","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6424","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-property-news"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p75ss1-1FC","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":72695,"url":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/how-can-i-deal-with-a-nightmarish-colleague\/","url_meta":{"origin":6424,"position":0},"title":"How can I deal with a nightmarish colleague?","date":"May 10, 2013","format":false,"excerpt":"\r She's an aggressive, depressive bully next to whom I have to sit, but I don't want to be sucked into her abyss of miseryEach Friday and Monday we publish the problems that will feature in a forthcoming Dear Jeremy advice column in the Guardian Money supplement so that readers\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Property News&quot;","img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":6334,"url":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/my-colleague-goes-home-early-whenever-the-bosses-are-away\/","url_meta":{"origin":6424,"position":1},"title":"My colleague goes home early whenever the bosses are away","date":"February 29, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"\r She sometimes leaves at lunchtime, saying there is no work, but that\u2019s not true. 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