{"id":56690,"date":"2017-06-02T13:00:16","date_gmt":"2017-06-02T06:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/my-colleague-moans-about-being-too-busy-but-refuses-any-help\/"},"modified":"2017-06-02T13:17:01","modified_gmt":"2017-06-02T06:17:01","slug":"my-colleague-moans-about-being-too-busy-but-refuses-any-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/my-colleague-moans-about-being-too-busy-but-refuses-any-help\/","title":{"rendered":"My colleague moans about being too busy, but refuses any help"},"content":{"rendered":"


\nThey have also complained to my manager that I don\u2019t support them. What should I do?Twice a week we publish problems that will feature in a forthcoming Dear Jeremy advice column in the Saturday Guardian so that readers can offer their own advice and suggestions. We then print the best of your comments alongside Jeremy\u2019s own insights.I work in a small team for a large professional services company and have a colleague who, while constantly bemoaning how busy they are, refuses any help. I\u2019d put this down to a martyr complex but was alarmed when I found out they had told my line manager I was not pulling my weight. I also learned that they have said the same thing about another colleague who, like me, offers their support during busy periods. Continue reading…
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