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My manager thinks it was me (because I am new) and is making my life unbearable. I know who the feedback is from but haven\u2019t told them. The HR department has said it doesn\u2019t want to betray the confidence that was put in it by clarifying the situation. This is all extremely stressful \u2013 what should I do? I want to leave but need the money.  Continue reading&#8230;&#013;<br \/>\n&#013;<br \/>\nSource : theguardian.com&#013;<br \/>\nRead more&#8230;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/money\/2017\/apr\/07\/dear-jeremy-my-boss-thinks-me-not-colleague-complained-hr\" target=\"_blank\">My boss thinks it was me, not my colleague, who complained to HR \u2013 what to do?<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#013; I know who the feedback to HR is from but haven\u2019t told my manager, who&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"false","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-51208","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-property-news"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p75ss1-djW","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":53812,"url":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/could-my-meetings-with-the-hr-manager-have-led-to-their-dismissal\/","url_meta":{"origin":51208,"position":0},"title":"Could my meetings with the HR manager have led to their dismissal?","date":"May 5, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"\r The boss of my new workplace apparently got upset and fired them, leaving me nervous about working for such a volatile personTwice a week we publish problems that will feature in a forthcoming Dear Jeremy advice column in the Saturday Guardian so that readers can offer their own advice\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Property News&quot;","img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":43601,"url":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/hr-thinks-music-in-the-office-is-a-good-idea-but-i-dont\/","url_meta":{"origin":51208,"position":1},"title":"HR thinks music in the office is a good idea \u2013 but I don&#039;t","date":"February 10, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"\r I find it hard to concentrate and the quality of my work will suffer. 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