{"id":2997,"date":"2016-01-29T14:00:08","date_gmt":"2016-01-29T07:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/how-do-i-get-my-colleague-to-stop-moaning\/"},"modified":"2016-01-29T14:12:25","modified_gmt":"2016-01-29T07:12:25","slug":"how-do-i-get-my-colleague-to-stop-moaning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/how-do-i-get-my-colleague-to-stop-moaning\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I get my colleague to stop moaning?"},"content":{"rendered":"


\nI share an office with a senior colleague who complains constantly about everything \u2013 it\u2019s stressing me out and I want it to stopTwice a week we publish problems that will feature in a forthcoming Dear Jeremy advice column in the Saturday Guardian so that readers can offer their own advice and suggestions. We then print the best of your comments alongside Jeremy\u2019s own insights. Here is the latest dilemma \u2013 what are your thoughts?I\u2019m an IT professional working for a large creative house and have recently moved roles to help manage and roll out a new system. This was a promotion that I wanted and applied for enthusiastically, as I felt it was the right career move and I enjoy the work I do. Continue reading…
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