{"id":26424,"date":"2008-05-02T15:50:58","date_gmt":"2008-05-02T08:50:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/can-i-get-my-money-back-from-an-ex\/"},"modified":"2016-09-18T11:13:10","modified_gmt":"2016-09-18T04:13:10","slug":"can-i-get-my-money-back-from-an-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/can-i-get-my-money-back-from-an-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Can I get my money back from an ex?"},"content":{"rendered":"


\nI lent my boyfriend \u00a32,000 while we lived together. However, after I had an affair we split up – it was over a year ago and he never paid me back. I’ve just discovered he’s landed a well-paid job and got a new girlfriend. Can I ask for this much-needed money back?He can get some satisfactionIf you got some form of agreement in writing, now’s the time to wave it above his head. Otherwise you’re in the unhappy situation of having to plead to his better nature. I’d find it hard to forgive someone doing the dirty on me, and I’d be unlikely to be talking to them afterwards, especially if I had found a more pleasant and loyal girlfriend. Nevertheless, in his position I’d pay the money back, but would probably make you beg a bit. That’s all he has left now to gain some satisfaction. If he’s a man of honour you’ll get it back in due course; if not, or if you aren’t giving us the full picture, then you’ll have to accept it and learn from your affair and your mistake.carloswhizz, via theguardian.com\/money Continue reading…
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