{"id":12954,"date":"2016-05-13T15:40:48","date_gmt":"2016-05-13T08:40:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/how-can-i-stop-an-employee-from-undermining-me\/"},"modified":"2016-05-13T15:53:19","modified_gmt":"2016-05-13T08:53:19","slug":"how-can-i-stop-an-employee-from-undermining-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.siamlandbank.com\/propertynews\/property-news\/how-can-i-stop-an-employee-from-undermining-me\/","title":{"rendered":"How can I stop an employee from undermining me?"},"content":{"rendered":"


\nSomeone I manage is using my niceness against me \u2013 I don\u2019t want to stoop to her level but I need her to see I know what she\u2019s up toTwice a week we publish problems that will feature in a forthcoming Dear Jeremy advice column in the Saturday Guardian so that readers can offer their own advice and suggestions. We then print the best of your comments alongside Jeremy\u2019s own insights. Here is the latest dilemma \u2013 what are your thoughts?I manage someone who is a real game player. I very definitely am not. I\u2019m pretty sure she is manipulating me, using my niceness and lack of guile against me. My manager has warned me that this is what my colleague is doing. She is a strong and forceful person, with definite ideas of how everything should be done and a bit of a ruthless streak. Continue reading…
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